At 10 a.m. this morning, we were waiting outside the judge's office with our translator when Alexei came out and asked why Travis' middle name was not listed in his passport. Travis explained, and while we did not understand why this suddenly became an issue, it was obviously a big one. Fifteen minutes later, we proceeded downstairs to the courtroom for the first of our two court appearances. Today the judge went through each document, as we sat with a prosecutor, the orphanage social worker, our translator, and two others. Again, Travis was asked to give the court an explanation regarding the missing middle name in his passport. The judge explained that she is unable to issue any adoption documents without the passport matching the name on the rest of our submitted documents. Nothing else would suffice; not the marriage certificate, not Travis' birth certificate, not the previously submitted copies of Travis' expired passport, all of which she had. This is Russian bureaucracy. We continued through the rest of our documents for the next hour. All were satisfactory. We were then asked to wait outside the courtroom while the rest of the courtroom discussed the passport issue.
The verdict was that our second day in court, scheduled for tomorrow morning, would be canceled. We need to provide satisfactory documentation from the U.S. Department of State that Travis is who he says is according to his passport. The prosecutor asked whether it mattered to the U.S. that the adoption documents would be issued with Travis' middle name missing. We answered 'no'. Travis asked if there was any other alternative to satisfying this requirement, but the answer was final. Pete's adoption is further delayed by at least one more court trip + 30 days.
Rules are rules, and there are no exclusions. No one, not even a judge, has authority to make an independent decision, even for such a trivial matter. This is socialism at its worst. Bureaucracy and big government unable to allow independent thinking and problem solving.
The judge left the courtroom, and the translator told us that the social worker was upset, but told us not to worry. Tears welled in my eyes. We're upset, but we understand we're adopting Pete from a foreign country, and it's the way it is. Did anyone catch this oversight before now? It's a mistake that costs an awful lot of money, but Praise God that He provided Travis with a new client yesterday so that we can pay for it. And then there's the greatest cost of all: Pete is left in the orphanage for an untold additional number of days, unable to bond to a family anxiously waiting to carry him home.
In a few minutes, we're off to see Pete, and it's going to be bittersweet.
Guys I'm so very sorry. More sorry for Pete who needs a home. May God bless and find quick resolve.
ReplyDeleteThanks John and Lee...we appreciate your prayers!
DeleteWell, come back home, relax and wait for his passport. Then fax the photo page of his passport back to Mother Russia with a cover sheet of a hand drawn middle finger, addressed to the Judge? That would be my course of action, which is probably why I am not there with y'all right now...
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's she who wants to be adopted by a U.S. citizen. Does someone want to adopt the judge?
DeletePrayers and thoughts are with you, Amy & Travis that these technicalities will not get in the way of two loving parents who are willing and eager to be parents to little Pete. May the Holy Spirit lift you through the challenges and empower the right people to expedite the process.
ReplyDeleteThanks Cheri!
DeleteAmy & Travis, Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. It certainly should not be this hard for two loving and committed parents to bring a child into their home. Stay strong, the Lord is on your side and He will carry you through. We love you guys! Beth & Bob
ReplyDeleteThanks Bob and Beth. Looking forward to that glass of wine when we get home!
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